https://www.youngju.dev/blog 천천히 올바르게. AI Researcher & DevOps Engineer Youngju's tech blog. GPU/CUDA, LLM, MLOps, Kubernetes AI workloads, distributed training, and data engineering. ko fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) Sun, 21 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-long-distance-relationships.en https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-long-distance-relationships.en This essay gently overturns the assumption that distance puts love to the test. It explores the surprising strengths and weaknesses of long-distance relationships, trust and communication, and the readjustment after reunion, in a warm and curious humanistic voice. Sun, 21 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) culturerelationshipspsychologycommunicationlong-distanceessay https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-long-distance-relationships.ja https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-long-distance-relationships.ja 距離が愛を試すという通念を静かにひっくり返してみます。遠距離恋愛の意外な強みと弱み、信頼とコミュニケーション、再会後の再適応までを、温かく興味深い人文エッセイとしてつづります。 Sun, 21 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) culturerelationshipspsychologycommunicationlong-distanceessay https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-long-distance-relationships https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-long-distance-relationships 거리가 사랑을 시험한다는 통념을 뒤집어 봅니다. 장거리 연애의 의외의 강점과 약점, 신뢰와 소통, 재회 이후의 적응까지 따뜻하고 흥미롭게 풀어내는 인문 에세이입니다. Sun, 21 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) culturerelationshipspsychologycommunicationlong-distanceessay https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-triangular-theory-of-love.en https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-triangular-theory-of-love.en Following psychologist Robert Sternberg triangular theory of love, this essay explores how three corners — intimacy, passion, and commitment — combine into seven kinds of love, and how the shape of love shifts as time passes. Sun, 21 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) psychologyrelationshipslovesternbergscienceessay https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-triangular-theory-of-love.ja https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-triangular-theory-of-love.ja 心理学者ロバート・スターンバーグの愛の三角理論をたどり、親密さ・情熱・コミットメントという三つの頂点がどのように七種類の愛を形づくるのか、そして時間とともに愛のかたちがどう変わっていくのかを見つめます。 Sun, 21 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) psychologyrelationshipslovesternbergscienceessay https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-triangular-theory-of-love https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-triangular-theory-of-love 심리학자 로버트 스턴버그의 사랑의 삼각형 이론을 따라 친밀감, 열정, 헌신이라는 세 꼭짓점이 어떻게 일곱 가지 사랑을 빚어내는지, 그리고 시간이 흐르며 사랑의 모양이 어떻게 변하는지 들여다본다. Sun, 21 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) psychologyrelationshipslovesternbergscienceessay https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-unrequited-love.en https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-unrequited-love.en Why is unrequited love so deep and sweet and aching all at once. We gently explore the psychology of falling for someone, the gap between fantasy and reality, how to receive rejection with grace, and the path to never losing your own self-respect. Sun, 21 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) psychologyloveself-respecthumanitiesrelationshipsessay https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-unrequited-love.ja https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-unrequited-love.ja 片思いはなぜこれほど深く甘く、それでいて痛むのでしょうか。誰かに惹かれる心理、幻想と現実のあいだの隔たり、拒絶を品位をもって受けとめる方法、そして最後まで自己尊重を失わない道を、あたたかく見つめていきます。 Sun, 21 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) psychologyloveself-respecthumanitiesrelationshipsessay https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-unrequited-love https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-21-unrequited-love 짝사랑은 왜 이토록 깊고 달콤하면서도 아픈 걸까요. 우리가 누군가에게 빠지는 심리, 환상과 현실의 간극, 거절을 품위 있게 받아들이는 법, 그리고 끝내 자기 존중을 잃지 않는 길을 따뜻하게 살펴봅니다. Sun, 21 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) psychologyloveself-respecthumanitiesrelationshipsessay