https://www.youngju.dev/blog 천천히 올바르게. AI Researcher & DevOps Engineer Youngju's tech blog. GPU/CUDA, LLM, MLOps, Kubernetes AI workloads, distributed training, and data engineering. ko fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) Sat, 20 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-20-attachment-styles-dating.en https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-20-attachment-styles-dating.en Secure, anxious, avoidant. Attachment theory is a small map explaining why we act the way we do when we love. From the roots of the theory to the patterns we live out in dating, and the genuine hope that change is possible, this is a light but evidence-based tour. Sat, 20 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) relationshipsattachmentpsychologydatingself-awareness https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-20-attachment-styles-dating.ja https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-20-attachment-styles-dating.ja 安定型、不安型、回避型。愛着理論は、私たちが愛するときになぜそう振る舞うのかを説明する小さな地図です。理論の起源から恋愛の中のパターン、そして変化は可能だという希望まで、軽やかに、けれど根拠をもって眺めていきます。 Sat, 20 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) relationshipsattachmentpsychologydatingself-awareness https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-20-attachment-styles-dating https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-20-attachment-styles-dating 안전형, 불안형, 회피형. 애착 이론은 우리가 사랑할 때 왜 그런 행동을 하는지 설명하는 작은 지도입니다. 이론의 뿌리부터 연애 속 패턴, 그리고 변화가 가능하다는 희망까지, 가볍지만 근거 있게 살펴봅니다. Sat, 20 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) relationshipsattachmentpsychologydatingself-awareness https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-20-science-of-healthy-relationships.en https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-20-science-of-healthy-relationships.en Couples who last are not lucky — they have different habits. From the Gottman Institute Four Horsemen to the magic 5-to-1 ratio, attachment theory, and the art of fighting kindly, here is what science reveals about lasting love, told with a light touch. Sat, 20 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) relationshipspsychologygottmanattachmentcommunication https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-20-science-of-healthy-relationships.ja https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-20-science-of-healthy-relationships.ja 長続きするカップルは運がいいのではなく、習慣が違うのです。ゴットマン研究所の四人の騎士、魔法の5対1の比率、愛着理論、そして喧嘩をやさしく扱う技術まで、科学が明らかにした健全な愛の原理を軽やかにご紹介します。 Sat, 20 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) relationshipspsychologygottmanattachmentcommunication https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-20-science-of-healthy-relationships https://www.youngju.dev/blog/culture/2026-06-20-science-of-healthy-relationships 오래가는 커플은 운이 좋은 게 아니라 습관이 다릅니다. 가트맨 연구소의 네 기수, 마법의 5대1 비율, 애착 이론, 그리고 갈등을 다정하게 다루는 법까지 과학이 밝혀낸 건강한 사랑의 원리를 유쾌하게 풀어봅니다. Sat, 20 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT fjvbn2003@gmail.com (Youngju Kim) relationshipspsychologygottmanattachmentcommunication